yume/selfshipping term glossary


i've typed yume so many times making this it's in my auto correct..... anyway, msg me on twt (@rendecaying) or discord (@imthe.alpha) if theres any terms i messed up or missed!!!!



RANDOM DISCLAIMER! i've seen a lot of people saying that the term yumeshipping is sort of a "thing, Japan" type thing, and i think this is mostly untrue. i personally like the term yumeshipping more because "yume" means dream, and i love dreaming abt my f/os. at the end of the day, it's night, and u can use either yumeshipping or selfshipping based on ur preference!

yumeship
when someone ships themselves/oc/self insert x fictional character, umbrella term
selfship
someone who ships themselves/self insert x fictional character (basically the same thing as yumeshipping, just a different term)
yume
same as yumeshipper, but i've also seen it used as a verb for the act of yumeshipping and a noun for someones f/o
yumejoshi
a feminine term for a yumeshipper
yumedanshi
a masculine term for a yumeshipper
yumejin
a gender neutral term for a yumeshipper
f/o (fictional other)
the fictional character that a yumeshipper ships themselves with
oshi
a character or idol that a person is especially devoted to, not necessarily a yume term
s/i (self insert)
a character representative of the creators personality and traits (does not have to look like the creator)
oc (original character)
a character created by somebody, does not have to be representative of the self
yumesona
a persona that someone uses to represent themselves specifically for their yumeship, may or may not look like the creator and usually carries the same personality traits and identity
doubles
a yumeshipper that has the same f/o as another yumeshipper
nonsharing
when someone dislikes seeing/interacting with people that have the same f/o
semisharing/selective sharing
when someone has specific people that they're okay with having the same f/o
sharing
when someone is fine with having the same f/o as someone else
mirror sharing
when somebody's sharing status reflects the person they're interacting with
fidelity list
a list where someone acknowledges specific people’s yumeships as the character’s only s/o, this list usually contains the op’s friend’s yumeships
romantic
a yumeship that is a romantic relationship
familial
a yumeship that is a familial relationship (father/mother/sister/brother/etc)
platonic
a yumeship that is a platonic relationship (friends)
riako
a female or feminine-aligned person that is serious about their relationship with their f/o as an irl relationship
gachikoi
same as riako, but gender neutral
soulbond
when a yumeshipper and their f/o have an involuntary connection and can communicate through some means